Does nobody else think like this?

Of course personality is more important than looks, but while you can see what somebody looks like straight away, you can't see their personality for quite a while. There has to be something to draw you to a person, to make you want to explore their personality, and there's a simple fact of nature that one kind of physical appearance will appeal to you more than another. It doesn't have to be the "hot" boy or girl either. For me it's always the redhead; for other people it's legs or eyes or whatever. That doesn't mean I never talk to anybody without red hair; it just means that in a crowd of 8 or 9 strangers, my eye will go straight to the redhead and that's the person I'll start talking to. I'll get to the others soon enough when I find that that particular redhead is actually rather boring ...